Sunday, August 25, 2013


So I like to blog, I know that in reality if I am looking into something or experiencing it then the odds are really good that someone else is as well.  I also do kid myself into believing that anyone is reading this.  Of course if you are reading this please take a minute and comment I’d love to know that you are out there.

Let’s start with a bit of background.  I go by the name of Randilin online and you can find me using that name on Fetlife.  The name stems from an old NPC in a long running D&D campaign.  My wife and submissive uses the handle tamile another character from that same campaign.  We have been together for 19 years this coming December.  During that time we have explored a number of kink lifestyles and fetishes, but we never went in to any in depth or for very long.  The only exception to that was polyamory.  During the last 3 years we have had a third in our life. That ended just before the summer, now our third lives with us as a roommate only.  It makes for an odd situation but one that is mostly working so far.

There is honestly a crap load of more stuff I could tell you about myself.  For example I am a father, a Grandfather, a geek, a writer, a gamer, and someone struggling to change the eating habits and lead a healthier lifestyle.  I have no doubt that a lot of this will stuff will come through in future blog articles and posts.

Ok, so here is what to expect from the blog.  You will see thoughts on my own journey as I learn about different aspects of BDSM, various fetishes and Kinks.  Along the way readers will also get to see various random thoughts and ideas that come up as I write.  I don’t know how often I’ll be posting but I will try and keep something new coming up on a semi regular basis.